Only option really is to show her how to reset her password. Sounds like she’s already doing it, just tell her that’s how you log in, you let it autofill, and if it doesn’t work you click forgot password and check your email and that’s how passwords work now

If you burn it, or fail to use it, someone you briefly thought maybe should go on the list gets to use it

I’m sure the genie will be happy to explain all the intricacies… Maybe when you are approached you can just ask him for a picture or a list of options.

Because they are a reasonably long lived organization with at least some rules and rituals that can be used as a base for theories. If they didn’t exist, a different organization would be used as the seed, or a fictional one would be made up. Unless you can think of a number of other organizations that for some reason aren’t picked on the same way? Church can’t be used quite the same, because they are to mainstream and inclusive, though secret societies within churches often get the same treatment.

That’s their strategy, let some laymen in to look around, show them some fake ‘secret’ rims to show they aren’t really that special, while the clevery hidden real secret doors are quietly moved as you leave and enter each room. You end up being just one boring anecdote on the Internet, but over centuries it adds up to hundreds of ‘eh’ accounts to hide the real story… It’s brilliant!

Not sure what you’re attempting there, trying to make it so his choices aren’t useful?